Teens talk about "the deadly secret" of being put in the position of having to keep a friend's confidence without "snitching". Explain that going to an adult when they have concerns for a friend's safety is not snitching, it's the mature and responsible thing to do. Choosing not to "snitch" could result in your child living with the thought that they should have told someone, but waited until it was too late! Tell your child that if they have concerns about a friend, you are willing to discuss their concerns before jumping into take action.