When you suspect a person is suicidal:

• Believe or trust your suspicions.

• Communicate your concern for the safety of the person. Be an active listener and show your support.  Inform the person that you cannot keep the conversation confidential, and that you will be seeking assistance.

• Be direct. Talk openly and freely and ask direct questions about the person’s intentions. Try to determine if he/she has a plan for suicide (how, where, when). The more detailed the plan, the greater the risk.

 

GET PROFESSIONAL ASSISTANCE

• Inform your building administrator, school social worker, psychologist, school counselor, minister, physician, school nurse, law enforcement or someone who can help solve the problem(s).

• Should you suspect someone may be contemplating suicide, contact a family member to remove all guns, lethal medications, alcohol, etc., from the house.

 

WHAT NOT TO DO

• Do not assume that the person in need isn't the "type" to commit suicide.

• Do not leave the person alone if you believe the risk for suicide is immediate.

• Do not act shocked at what a person tells you.

• Do not debate whether suicide is right or wrong. This may make a person feel more guilt.

• Do not use a suicide contract as your only method of dealing with the situation.